Find a plan you can both discuss.
Use preferences to choose a public setting, workable pace and an invitation — without turning friendship into a score.
Your preferences
The other person’s stated preferences
Choose your preferences to get a plan you can discuss.
Example: Different pace, different setting
You prefer a weekly group activity; another person prefers occasional one-to-one meetings. A percentage cannot decide whether to be friends. Ask whether a short public coffee before or after a group event suits you both, then agree one date before promising a weekly routine.
The tool shows what still needs discussing and offers wording for an invitation. Different choices do not establish someone’s personality, health or interest in you.
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